Happiness...

 Happiness.. what this is all about? Is it about doing whatever our heart wants us to do? Is it doing something selflessly for others..... Is it waiting for someone special back to home..... Is it playing with little kids..... Is it watching sunrise so long without taking any pause..... is it smiling while revisiting the old memories.....

i dont know... i think in last 30 years of life... i havent found my happiness yet. 

but i am still searching for that.

Happiness is here... when we accept ourselves completely as the way i am. When we forgive others with open heart.... When we smile for no reason. That moment is happiness.....

We all must have felt it. manytimes...

HOW TO OVERCOME FROM BREAKUP? COMMON QUESTION WITH UNCOMMON ANSWER

Lets discuss on a very common question in a very uncommon way / a spiritual way...

hmm... Breakup means End of something. But it also means a new beginning.

We are so attached with someone that we started thinking our life with that person in a way so  identify us with him or her. We start adding him/her in our each and every activity ...in our dreams .... in our future goals so much that we cant imagine our life without him/her.

But there is no such person who is as perfect as someone's expectations... neither us.

But to understand this simple thing we might waste lots of time and energy. I have spent 30 years to realize this. 

Life is so easy when we treat it as easy. Breakup is breaking of expectations of one person. and its very painful trust me. but why painful...why???????????

Reason is... We have identified ourselves to wrong identity. First we should understand who we are.... and then we should add someone in our lives. Life is a game... Every person came for some reason in your life..... when the reason is over he / she lefts.... But if u still dont get the lesson for which he/she had came into your life... some other person will come in your life to teach that same lesson which u can never understands.... So most imp part of a breakup is ...... Observing the relationship...Just sit for few hours with a pen and paper and think about each and every moment of that broken relationship... 

Mistakes , Happiness , Truth , Lies, Love everything... write them down. and try to figure out the pattern of your mind..... 

This is the most imp part.

Once we figure out the pattern of our mind... we understand ourselves and wont repeat it again in life...

This is the time when you have to accept your own mistakes and forgive other person for his/her mistakes deep within from your heart..... 

Once after doing this step... now its the time to get up and go to the mirror (or close your eyes ) and talk to self.... make some clear affirmations for future relationships....

its imp to make your own mind free from every burden...

life is beautiful and limited.

dont waste your time in crying or listening sad songs or regretting .....

life is to live to love to share your happiness with others......... 

Life is Easy.... dont make it complex.

Breakup is end.....end of your previous self...Change yourself in a better way for a better person.....

If you are complete within yourself...only then enter into other relationship until then just be happy free and grow yourself by loving YOURSELF....

Life is a Game.... Play it... Live It....

Next level is waiting for you...

ALL THE BEST....... 

Corona Virus : Is End of World or an inquiry to self???

Hello,
This was an important topic to write on. We all are facing pandemic Corona Virus now a days. Whole world is into it. But it brought us to an imp inquiry to self...Who am I? Is this world is of only ours?? No all the animals are also living into it. Earth is there home too. Human is the worse virus who dont allow anyone to live on this earth peacefully , not even nature itself.
Our major goals towards life like career money lust travel everything has just been ended. This is time to inquire that if we are alone or we all are one.
I am alone i feel it many times but Life is Temporary. Its just a game.
what is the purpose of life??? well m searching for it...if anyone reading it has the answer of life then plz tell me too....
If we survive then we must take care of the nature as well as of our inner self coz this is where all the answers of mystry resides in.

Truth of life

What is truth of life? Love , Relationships , Career , Healthy body , Calm Mind what???? Or all of them.
Every one is running for happiness even i am chasing for it from my childhood. When i was a child happiness was in making my family proud by achieving good marks in academics if i couldnt make that then i cry. As i grew older i start chasing people around me for happiness that may be my brother my mother father or anyone. As i grew little more elder i start dreaming of a beautiful rich career , become very ambitious , but one day again i start chasing happiness in one man who was my husband. He was everything for me. My Center of Happiness. I think i had put very large weight of expectations on him so everything ends like a tight slap. Then as a mother i started chasing my happiness in my little baby. She was my source of life, her smile , her touch , her every little activity i watched her for hours without saying anything, Just watching her, she was very very beautiful.  God have blessed  me with the most beautiful piece of his Grace in the form of a little angel my fairy Anishka. I love her and always do.
But Certainly that was not the end, i was not happy like fully happy. i was happy whenever i am with her , whenever she is in my lap in my arms i am happy and complete and whenever she is not with me i was deeply sad. I was no one. No body wants me, Good for nothing like the old furniture of house.
Then i started finding happiness in God. May be that is the truth for which we all are running through our whole life. But One day someone broke my idol of worship and that beautiful Krishna's statue was unable to help it out. Everything for what i was running for was a lie.
Our life is a Lie. There is No God in a statue or idol. There is no happiness in this world which will sustain.
The only truth is "Every thing is temporary" No need to run after anything.
Just sit down and calm down, Contentment is Happiness nothing else.
I can die at any moment we all could. What will remain?? Nothing.
May every one would be happy. I wish i could have understood this before...its too late....
but yes now i will never search my happiness in any one.
My happiness will go with me in me.
I decide to live not to end up with a depressed one.

Happiness is in contentment. It is never in any person or in any object. Never is..

MIRROR IMAGES OF GOD

Sounds Different??? Mirror Images of God..... Who are the mirror images of God??? Before reaching to the answer of this question we must ask a simple question.... what are mirror images?

Yes , Mirror Images are same but opposite. Like your both kidneys are mirror images of each other. They are same but opposite.

God's Mirror image would be similar to God But Opposite. No No i am not talking about Devil. In reality , In our scriptures and Vedas this very interesting fact is written and that is " We are That" means Some how God resides within us.Our elders keep on saying God Is In You. Right. 

Yes , We have that energy in us but we are not very aware about it. 

"Just imagine , Soul is a crystal transparent crystal and we put it in water in clean water , whatever light will come on this it will look like that light reflect it but if we put this crystal in dirty water having many dirty atoms into it then what will happen? It would be impossible to find that transparent crystal in that dirty water because it will look like dirty water. Whatever light will come on this it will be distorted by interfering atoms dirty atoms and it will reflect differently."

Just relate yourself means Your SOUL as Crystal transparent Crystal , God's Energy is the Light and water is Mind ( "Mann") . If our Mind is clear without any doubts , no negative feelings for anyone , full of love for everything, Happy , Clean like a child ( Because when we are child our water is clean) then We will reflect God's energies from our behavior like many saints did. But as we grow up our water get dirty day by day from our environment. As we fill it with every little negative thought incautiously, We feed it with every dirty thing. We keep hating or judging people on their behavior .When we achieve something we increases our ego and when we loses we got depressed and become jealous from others.   

Now its never too late , Because only HUMAN can clean his water No other species can do this. Only Human can achieve self realization. 

Lets Start cleaning our water i.e. our Mind. Lets become Master of it. Because it is temporary , One day you and I will die and get some other life in some other species and stuck in the loop. 

When your behavior start changing just identify yourself that yes your are reflecting God's energy and your water is getting cleaner day by day.

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IMITATION IS LIMITATION

Imitation Yes this is my next topic. Why? Imitation means Copying something. As a kid we grow by copying our elders and that is how we learn communication skills and using that language we learn everything. But point is we dont constructively use this imitation in our lives instead of that we use it as destructor . We are always imitating someone who is more successful in their lives but this is not true. This is not correct. We are unique . Start exploring yourself not imitate anyone because you can not become better than him.
I understood this point very late . I am 27 years old and i have gone through lots of experiences in my life and now i realize that the best practice to implement is just to be original. Be active and conscious all the time. The only thing is how to find that way in which we find happiness. Start trying everything , Start working on everything and find which work energies you and once you find something like that never find any excuse for that. Grow your talent by doing small actions in that domain. Dont think about results just do the work , Yes Result will come for sure.
All the best. Keep browsing yourself. You have something unique in you which reflects your internal energy.

LOVE

WHAT IS LOVE?

A very basic question. We all know about that right?? But in reality not even a single person will give the correct answer. We have created an image about Love. Love means addiction of something or happiness or feeling good or chemistry or some sensations or thinking out from mind etc. There are many definitions of love .

 Love is nothing but Love. We are not loving other people , we are seeking love from them . 

We don’t love our husband or our wife , We just want that they would love us. 

They would fulfill our needs our expectations then only we love them. How cheap and selfish this love is it?

We are attracted towards a beautiful person that just make a stamp that yes we love that person. No we are just attracted towards his/her body or towards his/her qualities somehow. But Attraction is not Love.

“ Love is without qualities , without expectations & day by day increasing exponentially .”

This is the smallest and most appropriate definition of Love. It is Divine Love when it is like that. It can happen between 2 souls but it couldn’t happen between 2 bodies. Physical Body can not delete expectations, anger , sexual needs from it. 

Yes our Intellect can control it but can not delete it completely. But our soul can love like that . Souls can do divine love.

Our souls have this quality to connect with each other so immensely that they can be bound for years for decades for lifetimes even after death.

Once you will go deep into spirituality You will come to know how all souls are connected to each other. Life is beautiful when we are in love. We could be in love all the time just by loving others. We are complete just give love to others without expecting something in return. We are capable of loving others even if  they are not with us.Our movies has made this love as a showoff drama but it is not actually like that. Love is not a craze it takes patience & purity.

Love is divine and it is what God do with us. God has let us allow freedom , Given life to us. We could even say anything to him but He has given full freedom to us. This is Love what God does with us.

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RELATIONSHIPS

FREEDOM & ACCEPTANCE IN RELATIONSHIPS

“Freedom is the body of perfect relationship & acceptance is the soul of a perfect relationship.”

This single line , I have read it in a book in which this dialogue had came from God Shri Krishna. I browsed this line over and over again and again into my mind and relate this with my own personal relationship issues. Its a very very powerful thought.

A perfect relationship whether it is of mother son or husband wife or father daughter or friends or lovers or any other relation of the society, They leads misery and tension just due to the lack of freedom.

A very true and harsh reality is this “No single person on this earth loves you for your sake.” Everyone do this for their sake and similarly we also make relationship like that. Everyone is selfish including you. If the person is behaving exactly in a certain way like you wanted him to do , then only that person would be good for you else there would be anger . 

Anger will take place initially in your heart as your expectations were not fulfilled and then Anger will take place in his/her heart as their freedom is restricted.

Our basic nature is free. If we really start loving people in the certain way where we allow them to live freely as they want , accept them as they are , Every single person would be happy. We are sad, angry only because of expectations . Sometimes we don’t fulfill other’s expectations and sometimes others ( our loved ones ) don’t fulfill our expectations. How difficult is to accept others as the way they are. Right?

 Trust me.... Its very easy. I have changed a lot now. I was an introvert. Yes , I think too much when it comes to people who were in my family as i loved them from heart not from mind and when they hurted me or i should say they reacted in a certain way i automatically hurted myself. But in reality they were just playing their roles , Behaving in a certain way. They were not wrong. Similarly there may be people in your life also who sometimes behaves like that you didn’t like and you get hurt. 

Then try this simple Sadhana – “ Sit alone for half an hour at a peaceful and in beautiful aroma place. Just think like that every people is very innocent . They are incomplete just trying to complete themselves by getting something. For few people just arguing with others and then winning that argument means much more for their lives. They feel superior in that way. They don’t even think about others emotions. Just think how idiot or childish they are.

Some people try to control others. They are of controlling nature right.But let me introduce to a fact that each and every human being has this in his basic nature that he/she wants to control others. Every soul is unhappy and incomplete so they thinks that either by controlling other people behaving them in a certain way we like so. They think it will make them happy or complete. But irony is “This is not the correct way or being happy".

Correct way is  “ Freedom and Acceptance”.

Yes, Let your family friends lover be Free in their own lives. Dont be so incomplete that you need someone else to complete you. You are complete. Yes. Human body is the complete and best machine on this earth as it contains the creation and creator within it.

We are complete. Just leave everyone in their own life . In this way you will love them in more pure manner. Remember every person every soul is alone from thousands of years and after death not even a single soul will come with you. You have a limited time here. Just enjoy it by caring others , by loving others , by being a pure human being . Give freedom to others and accept them as the way they are. You can suggest if they are doing something nasty. But don’t judge them or hate them. Every person is innocent from inside. Even our parents who scolds us sometimes, They also are so scared of something that they get angry on our certain actions. Its simple. No one is bad , We all are same .

Just be free and let others free. Dont control others. Respect the value of freedom . Value it. Dont do certain actions which are wrong ethically wrong. It is not freedom. Freedom means just free yourself from caste system , free yourself from abusive language , anger , free yourself from predefined mental patterns which were preset belief system of your. Freedom means being a pure soul without any bondage.

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‘TATVAMASI’ ------- ‘THAT IT IS’

    ‘TATVAMASI’ ‘AHAMBHRAMASMI’ ‘KUN FAYA KUN’

‘THAT IT IS’

Finding the title of this post weird???? Yes it is somehow for this new generation. All this small phases are same in different languages different group of people. They actually refers to the biggest secret of this universe and that is – “ We are actually Him.”

Confused??? Yes We have God within us. We have heard this phase lots of time that “See God everywhere in every person.” Or “ God is omnipotent.” Or many phases like that. We just hear it and forget it.

So lets go deep within this thought. How it is actually possible that some one else is residing inside our body. But this is truth.

We have to learn few very important aspects about us which were in the teachings of ancient culture of India. We have 5 bodies or layers related to us.

1.    Physical Body/Food Body              (Annamayakosha)

2.    Mind Body                                       (Manomayakosha)

3.    Energy Body                                    (Pranamayakosha)

4.    Etheric Body                                    (Vigyanmayakosha)

5.    Divine or Bliss                                  (Anandamayakosha)

We never complete learning about the first one that we would be able to work on others. Our life’s main purpose is to reach to Bliss. We all are in human lives due to some special reason. Because only Human have this much of ability to reach at this state. 

We are the best creatures of nature.

We all know as our Modern Science says that everything is nothing but Energy is manifesting itself into various forms. All this looks true but it is just a glimpse of the real truth.

We only go through the Physical Body in this life. Anything we eat becomes us. We eat apple and it becomes our body . How beautiful Machine our body is.

We have identified ourselves with this physical body & Mind body. We never think out of them. But in real life is much bigger than Money , food , clothes. 

We are Divine Souls living in this body. We are not the body only. This body is growing because of the energy of our soul. When our soul leaves this food body it stop growing , acting and it starts decomposing. So first of all most important fact is that we should NOT identify ourselves with this physical body.

We have most advanced technologies now a days but we can not travel at the speed of light but in our Vedas it is clearly written that Souls can travel at the speed of light or faster than that also. 

Such a very small particle and so much of energy. Have you ever think about that. How it can be possible. The answer is “Tatvam Asi” means we are Him. Yes we have God residing in us. We are powerful due to His energies. He is in our heart when we are in this physical body.

Yes, this line may seems old or boring to you folks but this is the biggest secret of our life. 

We don’t even know about that. There are 2 energies residing in this body. One is you then have you ever think who is the other? Its Him. Yes He is there with you and keep records of everything you do . He is able to see what you are doing with this beautiful instrument ( “Body” ). How you are feeding it? How you are taking care of it? How you are taking care of others ? How do you behave with others ? Yes He can see you even when no one is watching.

 Have you ever hear that some people performing Yoga or Meditation claims that they can make their soul ( “Aatma “) outside from their body and again they come back to their bodies. Yes its true.  Read a book “ A Biography of Yogi “ . Every single line written in that is practically possible but yes it require lots of patience and purity.

But yes all this thing is true. Now lets come to the point back. How it is possible that a human being is able to move his soul out from his body and can enter back to it. How the Body don’t die? Soul is not there but he is not dead. Have you think about it. The answer is in this fact. The other part of energy stays in the body to make it alive and that is Him.

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STORY OF 3 PERSONS

 ( Master VS Maid )

I am going to share an illogical story but you will soon find how illogical we are.

“ There are 3 characters in our story. One A Rich person ( The Master ) , Second His Only Son , Third their Maid . Yes , Sounds weird ??? that is how life is.

A Huge fight is going on between The Master & the Maid. Its a very unusual fight because fight is between Master & Maid. 

Fight’s main reason is 

“Master is saying You surrender first and i will appear as the way you want and Maid is saying You appear first then only i will surrender.”

And its an endless fight No one is ready to end this fight. Son is standing like an idiot. Fight is going on for hours and Son is tired of standing. Son is with Maya as he have forgotten his father.He is thinking logically that yes Maya is correct. No one is ending the fight.

Lets come to the point – Master is GOD , Son is Our Soul & Maid is Maya (Mann or Mind) .

Fight is – Our Mind/Mann never surrenders to God as it says by using Brain’s neurons and programmed patterns that God if you really exists then come in front of me and i will surrender to you. We actually have forgotten that we are Son of our God. We have became slave of our Mind. Or Son has become slave of Maid Maya.

We are living this fight endless fight from many many years. We don’t remember that after how many years we are here.

We all have become so Logical that yes there is no God. All people who are chanting his names are foolish people. Do you know guys even my question was the same “why mumma do lots of Pooja( prayer)?” 

We think that the person who is doing such things is either scared of something or an idiot who is just following someone else or he/she is doing drama. But in real ,  Not all but yes few of such kind of people who worships a lot are very strong and peaceful in their mind.

They are not part of fight they have already surrender themselves to God. One day God will definitely appear to them either in this or in next life ( Only if they wont forget their father.)

I know my logical friends you  might be thinking that this blog is going boring. So lets come to some logical facts which actually move you in the opposite direction and you will also be peaceful from your inner self and very successful in any field you will enter in physical world.

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JOURNEY WITHIN

Hello friends,

       Here i start this blog along with this intention that we all should know some very basic points about real life. We all search for , read about LIFE but no one comes to a certain conclusion. My question about LIFE had started when i was very young. I asked to my elder brother “ Bhaiya , Log marte kyun hai ? hum dukhi kyun hote hai ? Mummy itni pooja kyun krti hai ? “ He gave me many satisfactory answers which were necessary for a child whose age is 9-10 years. Then i grow up but today i can say that we all grow up only from our bodies not at our soul or internal consciousness level. We all grow up by learning languages , Logics , technologies, art etc. They all are important as i am also an engineer and yes i loved my subjects unlike other classmates of mine. I love coding , reading everything a boring studious person do.

Lets move back to our point. It is that we all have lots of words to talk about anything related to SURVIVAL OF LIFE but we don’t have enough words to say about LIVING BLISSFUL LIFE. We actually don’t even know what it is all about. I would like to share one line here which i had read in Bhagwat Gita-

“ Jiske khud haath bnde ho wo dusre ke haath nhi khol skta.”

Do you know what is sad about this point. In this world each and every person or i should say 99.9% persons are in prison. Their hands are not free so that they can free anyone else. If 10000 people would have running in a direction then how a newcomer can have courage to run in another direction. This is the problem why we all are running outwards not inwards.

Another small story i would like to share with you –

Once a passenger were going somewhere and lost his way. He asked from a person who was sitting on a bench at the side of road “ Can you please tell me how long is the way to the university?”.He said     “ Yes , its 10,00,00,00,00,000 km away in your nose’s direction in which you are standing. But if you will turn into just opposite direction its just 1 km.”   Sounds weird ???? but this little useless conversation can teach us a beautiful lesson and that is

“ We all are searching a destination where happiness lives always and roaming all around everywhere . We are searching happiness in our friends , family , work , money , cars , gadgets etc. But we never get it. Because we are going into opposite direction. We will never get that even after wandering thousands of km or after wandering in various lives ( or many Janams ). Correct direction is INSIDE. Yes reality is this that happiness lies in us. Our very basic nature is pure , true , happy . But while learning survival tricks we have forgot our own nature.”

Just for a while , for your own happiness sake lets forget all logics which are always in your mind. Let it make clear for a while. Make your glass empty.

Lets think that you are a new born baby who is clear who only knows basic survival strategies who is always pure and happy . Even after crying within few minutes he smiles and hugs that person. One day my husband scold my little 2 year old daughter she started crying and came to me by saying “Mumma papa maar diya....” i hugged her kissed her and show her a toy and she started playing with it. After few minutes she felt sleepy. My husband called her to sleep in his arms . She smiled and go to her papa and slept in his arms. Both of us noticed her innocence that she have forget whatever had happened before few minutes. 

In our day to day life we can never perform such innocence with anyone even with our closed ones. Even our parents scold us or say something we started ignoring or avoiding them. We don’t forget even a small incident . but we forgets all beautiful big moments which we have spent with them . This is the clear sign of this truth that we are not the way we were original. We have changed we have become impure. While learning survival tricks we have become very good player of a reality show but we are not good human beings.

So lets start a journey towards happiness towards purity towards our original divine nature towards our real inner self.

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