Lets discuss on a very common question in a very uncommon way / a spiritual way...
hmm... Breakup means End of something. But it also means a new beginning.
We are so attached with someone that we started thinking our life with that person in a way so identify us with him or her. We start adding him/her in our each and every activity ...in our dreams .... in our future goals so much that we cant imagine our life without him/her.
But there is no such person who is as perfect as someone's expectations... neither us.
But to understand this simple thing we might waste lots of time and energy. I have spent 30 years to realize this.
Life is so easy when we treat it as easy. Breakup is breaking of expectations of one person. and its very painful trust me. but why painful...why???????????
Reason is... We have identified ourselves to wrong identity. First we should understand who we are.... and then we should add someone in our lives. Life is a game... Every person came for some reason in your life..... when the reason is over he / she lefts.... But if u still dont get the lesson for which he/she had came into your life... some other person will come in your life to teach that same lesson which u can never understands.... So most imp part of a breakup is ...... Observing the relationship...Just sit for few hours with a pen and paper and think about each and every moment of that broken relationship...
Mistakes , Happiness , Truth , Lies, Love everything... write them down. and try to figure out the pattern of your mind.....
This is the most imp part.
Once we figure out the pattern of our mind... we understand ourselves and wont repeat it again in life...
This is the time when you have to accept your own mistakes and forgive other person for his/her mistakes deep within from your heart.....
Once after doing this step... now its the time to get up and go to the mirror (or close your eyes ) and talk to self.... make some clear affirmations for future relationships....
its imp to make your own mind free from every burden...
life is beautiful and limited.
dont waste your time in crying or listening sad songs or regretting .....
life is to live to love to share your happiness with others.........
Life is Easy.... dont make it complex.
Breakup is end.....end of your previous self...Change yourself in a better way for a better person.....
If you are complete within yourself...only then enter into other relationship until then just be happy free and grow yourself by loving YOURSELF....
Life is a Game.... Play it... Live It....
Next level is waiting for you...
ALL THE BEST.......
